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Info about blowjobs please? Sorry if this is offensive to anyone.
I'm curious how to give the perfect *******.. without doing deep throat.
I know guys like it when you play with their balls but what do you actually do with them?
Also, if a guy isn't going to *** from it, how long are you supposed to carry on for?! How do you know when to stop?
And finally, the question that will probably make me sound most stupid of all.. If a dude comes in your mouth, when you go back down aren't you just kinda spreading his *** back over his dick? O.o How do you swallow it?
*sigh* opening myself up for either deletion or ridicule here, but here goes.. | | I don't think anyone will ridicule you for this but it sounds like you really need to watch how it's done in some of the porno's first unless you know of a guy who will tell you what to do step by step. | Do guys like surprise blowjobs?/ is there any way to make one...romantic? lets say you and your boyfriend are cuddling, watching a movie ( i love chick flicks but lets be honest i get more into the "moment" to a crazy action movie), and all of a sudden, you feel that your boyfriend has a *****. he feels embarassed when this happens, but would he like it if i gave him a sexy look and then "helped him out"
or would he just feel MORE awkard that id have to do that in the middle of the movie
and i feel like its demoralizing when girls give bjs because the guys usually start grabbing their heads and shoving their "di.cks" down our throats.
is there any way to let him know that i just want to do it to make him feel good, but i dont want to turn it into a deep-throat contest. | There is absolutely no way to turn a ******** into a romantic moment(s). You're right about it only being a deep throat contest. Why not slide on top of him instead?
Tell him you want to make him feel good.
But most guys do love a surprise bj.
♥ | A more detailed version of: would you pace gf A OR B?!? this is a real situation involving real people.
the last post was more about there bad qualities so ill add a new version with more of the good stuff. the funny thing is that a lot of men and woman lol are acttracted to both becasue overall they have great personalites and look dam good.
girlfriend A-
cons- bossy, stubborn, manipulative, , has high standards for a boyfriend, can't stand being alone, trust issues, anxiety issues, has been molested and abused, expects you to have some money, loves having a lot of sex, likes to drink on weekends, gets depressed, mental terrorist, wins her arguments. when in a relationship will go from loving to hating you causing break ups.
neutral(up to you to decide)
- likes routine
- obsessive about a lot of things
-philosiphical
- loves deep convo
- likes telling you the truth
- wants the perfect relationship
- looks like a skinny version of kim kardashian
pro- trustworthy, wants to spend time with you, faithful, respectful, gives you attention, needs to always be in a relationship, does not fall in love to quick. funny, likes having convos, loves sex. takes you seriously if your her bf. excpects a lot of respect. wnats a lot of attention, moans when having sex with you. affectionate and can't forget about you. not to crazy.
girlfriend B
con- bipolar, overemotional(but youll never know becasue she controls it pretty well unless she blows up), likes drugs, loves adventure, hilarious and crazy, unstable, down for almost anything, loves surprising people, will compliment you a lot. crosses the line, perfect at getting people to forgive her after something bad she did. too crazy.
neatrul
- talkative
- intellectual,
- deep sometimes
- loves the party scene
- looks like a victorias secret model(sfcpg.com/eh/1.jpg) and a cross with www2.victoriassecret.com/commerce/onlineProductDisplay.vs?namespace=productDisplay&origin=onlineProductDisplay.jsp&event=display&prnbr=CP-185563&page=1&cgname=OSPTYDLSTHR&rfnbr=2919
NO EXAGGERATION THESE GIRLS ARE GORGEOUS.!
pro-- loves adventure, hilarious and crazy, unstable, down for almost anything, loves surprising people, when in love is extremely romantic, sensitve, loving caring and can't get her hands of you, amazing at blowjobs, a s l ut, amazing at blowjobs, when in love is extremely romantic, sensitve, loving, caring, giving, omg an amazing dfferent person and can't get her hands of you and will travel the world for you because she can't stand being alone. sensitve to your n
eeds but is a cheater if you make her unhappy.
idk why but even if you guys might hate both they still get a lot a lot of attention from people in the public, they both just have an extremely magnetic aura.....but if you had girlfriend C who would she be?? | A. Faithful ,is very important in any relationship.
B you said cheats. So a big no. | I am scared of Sex and its ruining my Life!? My boyfriend is very experienced and sexually active. He wants to try bondage, rough sex etc. I like that, it turns me on.. IN MY MIND. BUT- I dont have enough confidence to do it. Partly because I have big boobs and they bounce and jiggle when Im on top, so I never get on top. Also, I cant "ride", iv never done it before and Im too embarrased to "try" it on my bf in case I get it wrong or will be too slow and then it will just get awkward. Im so scared. Sometimes I just run away from any opportunity to have sex.. When we have sex, he is the one doing all the work.. I just lay there thrusting my hips towards him, I do moan and thats a good thing and I make him ejaculate.. But its not enough, Idont like it..I just get anrgy and may stop in the middle of sex and blame all the fault on him when really its MY fault. Yesterday he totally killed my confidence (or whats left of it) by saying " I can TEACH you how to use your body to bring me to my greatest heights, not that you dont do it well, you are good but Its not enough to just lay there giving me randon unpassionate handjobs instead of doing it like rabbits"... That was the final blow. Now, Im even scared of having ANY SEX with him at all ! Im not experienced, Iv only been with one man before him!.. I know all the tricks in my head of great sex and im very creative but I cant bring myself to do it.. Im scared of telling him to be rough with me.. Im scared of dirty talk.. Im scared of SEX.! Its killing me and my relationship. I feel like a baby. Im even shy to give him blowjobs because when I gave him one reccently, he put "himself" into my mouth like deep in and out to "help me out" because he said I was doing it very slow and gentle.. What man wants to be with a girl like that? Everytime we get to sex I feel like hes the judge and Im the student passing a dance exam.. I get so scared that I just stop, roll over on my side and quietly cry.
Please help me Dear GOD. | To be totally honest, the very most likely thing that's frustrating him is not at all that you're not good at sex, he's not judging you for bad unpassionate sex, but I will tell you now that he DEFINITELY will be very frustrated that you are not showing the WILL to improve and going out of your way and being proactive about improving yourself. Trust me he will NOT care that you're bad at sex if you actually put a foot forward yourself and consciously try your best. His frustration is not for your lack of ability but because you lack the WILL to actually improve or be open. If you show him that you indeed do have the will to get better, then there is no way in hell that he will judge you for that.
You need to:
1) Talk to him and discuss these fears and tell him you're scared of being open, experimental, and the like.
2) You need to be confident and tell him that from now on you're going to try, even if you think you look stupid in doing so. Trust me, he will be over the moon about this.
3) You need to be confident and have sex and do what's always in your head and do not fear that what you are doing is wrong or embarrassing. He is your PARTNER and no way is he your judge. If at any time he does give you pointers from this point on it shows that he is also doing his part and being proactive about helping you improve. It is not criticism in any way, it is teaching and learning.
I can guarantee you 100%, bet on my life that he will not judge you if you do show you have the will to improve. He will love you to bits for opening up about this and putting in the effort.
The only way you're going to get out of this situation is by doing this and the only way you can work your way to glory is with confidence, openness, practice and learning. Remember that you can at any time at all ask for his advice and opinion too. It is a mutual relationship, not a boss/employee relationship. Partners talk to each other and can discuss anything with each other and not once will he hesitate or be embarrassed or not answer anything you ask even if you use the dirtiest kinkiest language on the planet.
Otherwise I can guarantee you that it will only get worse if you do not step up and do something about it.
Please do talk to your partner, even show him that you've posted this question, and follow the 3 steps I wrote up. You will not regret doing this.
-AcharyA | Falling asleep during a *******? So...how common is it for blowjobs to be "relaxing" and to fall asleep during them? I can give my boyfriend a ******* for going on an hour with no signs of him hardly even enjoying it. He says he does, and that it's relaxing, and that they always make him a little drowsy. The last ******* I gave him, I was deep throating like crazy, etc, etc--I don't see how it could have been bad. Yet, off he goes. Right asleep. I stopped and he didn't even realize it.
...Is it me? I can't be *that* bad, can I? | All I can say is that the term "numb nuts" comes to mind.
My guys jumps all over the place when he cumms.
Your guy must have desensitized nerve endings. | Why doesn't my gf want sex with me anymore? Let me tell you a bit more about the situation I/we are in.
We are both 25 and have been in this relationship for a bit more than 9 years.We are eachothers first and only sexual partner. We have sex about 3-4 times a week, which I was very happy with. Just 10 days ago my gf told me she really doesn't like to have sex with me anymore... she had this feeling for about almost a year... she kept on having sex with me because she really loves me...
You must understand we are having a difficult time already because a couple of months ago she began to have feelings for a colleague ather work, I found out about it, she confessed everything. They didn't have sex, they didn't kiss but the feelings were there nonetheless. The interesting part was that she had to restrain from kissing the guy and even thought about having sex with him. She says she doesn't feel anything for him anymore, isn't interested and is even quitting/changing her job because of it. That part is not that big of an issue anymore... I believe her, in 9 years this was the first time ever.
We had a very difficult time but we just couldn't live without eachother... deep down we both feel that this is it, this is love meant for life. We both love eachother very very much but she just doesn't like to have sex with me. Blowjobs are ok, she like to give them.
Not only sex, I asked her to write me a fantasy to me. I told her I would read hers and I wouldn't expect anything from it... It's not that I would immediatly fill her fantasy wish, she just couldn't write it to me. The idea of writing something like that was enough to put her off. She asked that I would go first then, which I did and she read it... she didn't hate it but she didn't like it either...
I think she thinks that I have a desire that she does the stuff in my fantasy which I told her I didn't.
We have done some research together and maybe one of the reasons is that I want too much sex from her...and that intimacy is lacking. Can't be the complete reason, I'm sure of it... so now, for the time being we are not having sex anymore, not untill she feels comfortable with it.
I am looking for a reason why. is it something I did, something I didn't do? Is it even me? Why would she want to have sex with the other guy from work??
I need some serious help!! | This is actually pretty common about this stage of a relationship. Ask married people, i swear.
It also seems to happen more often with women than men. You attribute it to a lack of intimacy. My personal theory is it is actually too much.
i don't understand it myself, but can only say it is something i have noticed often in other women and in myself, but it seems that the more men and women know of one another, the less mystery that survives, the more difficult it often is for a woman to feel connected. i think familiarity may breed contempt.
i understand you think the colleague that she had the near miss with is a thing of the past, but she may be feeling as if she has missed something, the two of you having experienced no one but the other, no marriage and no guyren (tho you don't say anything as to why you've not made that decision and certainly not everyone needs to). She may not be able to explain it herself (i can't either). It may only be a kind of feeling that she wants to see what other men might be like. You must have met at 16, so i should think that a reasonable thought for you both to have.
i'm sure she loves you. That's obvious in that she is staying with you, but it does not mean your relationship is not in trouble or that it may not even be over. i think the idea that you can survive under this kind of arrangement, unless she is completely disinterested in sex with anyone, is just not very typical and i think it's possible that the thing with the guy she worked with is not over, or that if he is, she now is thinking of others, that she sees something less in you or more in someone else.
It doesn't mean you are, that you aren't worthy of her just because this is happening, and i promise you have likely done nothing wrong, unless being yourself (as well as understanding and patient, it sounds to me) somehow put her off. Her changing isn't something anyone should be expected to anticipate or accommodate, but it does happen.
We can be in love, deeply so, and be wrong for one another, or change enough to become mismatched. Sometimes women have a horrible time hurting someone they love with the truth. They often find it more difficult to verbalize the end of it to their partner and so deconstruct their relationships painfully with their behavior in order to provoke you into ending it.
We are conditioned to be the nurturers, the caregivers, not to harm those we care for, even to sacrifice ourselves for the feelings of others. Women sometimes then leave their lovers a piece at a time, being more hurtful than if they would just honestly end it.
Some need to check the waters to see if leaving wouldn't put them worse off then they are.
These things are possible reasons for her behavior but not for your acceptance of it. Only you can decide that.
Try it longer if you like, but my advice is to make her choose, to provoke some honesty from her with anything emotionally legal. If i were you, i would rather hear the truth now than wait for her to become firm in her resolve to leave while you wonder what is up with her.
You are not asking for "too much sex". She has changed up the rules and even if she does not understand why she no longer wants it from you, she needs to own up to it and give you the best explanation she can. Then you have to decide how much to take, what to accept, what you might not be able to live with, but she has your first answers. She owes you the truth. | What do you think of this story? Holly could only remember the time when Kayla came up to her one day and explained the "Birds & the Bees" to her. Holly couldn't stop laughing for days.
The girls then looked at Savannah expectantly. Savannah just stood there looking like an innocent school-girl in her irish-green sweater and knee-length skirt over white stockings.
"Well?" Jamie said.
"'Well' what?" Savannah asked, laughing nervously.
"When did you first find out about sex?" Holly finished.
Savannah just giggled. "You mean when did I first learn about it or when did I first hear the word."
"Both." all three of the girls said in unison.
"Fine." huffed Savannah. "I didn't learn about it until the eighth grade. I heard the word in the third grade, but I didn't find out what it was until the eighth grade. I didn't even know about 'blowjobs' until this year."
As soon as Savannah had said all of that, the girls erupted into uproarious fits of laughter. Elisha and Jamie both doubled over and laughter. They covered their faces with their hands and let their laughter counterpoint the grandfather clock ticking in the background. Holly on the other hand looked at the girls as if they were immature. She shot Savannah a pitying look before raising her hand up.
The girls immediately saw Holly's hand and stopped laughing. The hand signal meant "Okay, that's enough. You're hurting someone's feelings, here."
"That's not uncommon." Holly tried. "I know plenty of girls who didn't know about sex until their late years."
"Like who?" Savannah demanded. "Carrie White? She's a fictional character."
"You don't know about periods, either?" Jamie asked, astonished.
"Of course I do!" Savannah said. "I didn't start mine until I was eleven. The funny thing is that I held my legs over my head for a few minutes. That same day I started my period."
"You mean that actually works?" Elisha asked.
"I didn't think so." Savannah admitted. "I saw that in a 'Seventh Heaven' episode and decided to do it."
"Oh, yeah!" Jamie exclaimed. "I can't believe the show got---"
"On topic, James." Holly sang, putting a hand on Savannah's shoulders. "It's nothing to be ashamed of. We all are different. You just so happened to be an autistic girl who didn't know what sex meant until the eighth grade. There's nothing wrong with that."
"That's practically last year." Elisha stated. "I think it's a big deal."
"Not helping." Jamie said.
"She did give Carter a bj, though." Elisha said.
"Don't remind her." Holly said pointedly. "It's not pleasant."
"Yeah, thanks, Leesh." Savannah groaned.
"Sorry." Elisha said, smirking. "But it's proof that you're not so innocent."
"Once again; thanks." Savannah rolled her eyes and went over to the statue of Venus de milo.
Ad interim, Holly looked at her watch. It said 4:22. Damien was supposed to show up in eight minutes. She wanted her friends to stay out of the way when he came over.
"Okay, guys." Holly said. "You can stay here. But just hang out in the basement for the time. At least until Damien leaves."
"You're obsessed with him." Savannah mumbled, taking off her white peacoat.
"Yeah, love you too." Holly said blandly.
As the girls started to exit the room, the doorbell rang. Holly ran to the door and saw Damien standing outside. Taking a deep breath, she opened up the door.
"Hey," he said, stepping inside her house. "It's cold in here."
"I'll make sure to turn up the thermostat." Holly said, pecking him on the lips.
They walked past the living room and up the stairs. Holly hoped no one else was in the house. Her parents were at work while her siblings were out hanging with friends. | You want my honest feedback? Well, here it is.
I'm sorry, but I really don't like this. It's gross. I feel really uncomfortable reading about 13-14-year-olds having sex and giving each other blowjobs.
Sure, it's normal for guys that age to be curious about sex, but not that much. Most guys don't even have boyfriends and girlfriends until at least Grade 11 - my brother is 20, and he's never had one! And even then, most people don't actually have sex until at least their mid-20s.
Honestly, it feels like I'm reading guy porn.
May I ask what you hoped to achieve by writing this? Was it supposed to be a sex story without the explicit sex? If so, could you bump up the ages of the characters by at least 4-5 years?
I'm sorry, I really am. I kind of like your style, though, so please keep writing...but stick to less disturbing stuff if you're gonna write about guys, and make your characters adults if you're going to write stuff like this. | How can i overcome the lies i have told? This is a long story, but i ask you please take the time to read it. i need help! I am a beautiful woman in her early 40's, i met a very handsome man a little younger than myself. he comes over to see me every nite . we watch tv and i cook for him. afterwards i massage him, maybe give him an occasional hand job. he sleeps beside me every nite and doesnt touch me in anyway. he has never kissed me, he is very religious and because of his belief, he wont have intercourse with me. but he thinks blowjobs are okay. he also doesnt believe in second marriages. he has never been married before. he knows about my one marriage but he doesnt know that i have been married three separate times. i want him so desperately that i made up this bizarre story, ive told him that my marriage ended because i never had sex with my husband, and that we only lived together for 3 months. now he thinks that in the eyes of god that my marriage was never valid, but he still doesnt know about my 2 other marriages.i feel that i have dug a hole so deep that i cant get out. please help me, this is the man of my dreams and i feel like i will die if i lose him. | | Please! Sex is sex, whether it's a ********, hand job or intercourse! The guy is playing you like a fiddle. He's selfish and uncaring about your feelings and your needs. He uses his "beliefs" to not take care of your needs, but allows himself to put his "beliefs" aside for you to take care of his. LOSER! Dream bigger girl. This guy seems extremely two-faced and selfish. Sorry=( | Does he love me (Long but in bullet style and interesting)? Does he love me? Because I love him very much and he tells me he loves me often and deep down I know he does, but sometimes I have doubts and need reasurence. Here are the main points of our relationship:
• I’ve known him since 11th grade in high school (I was 17 and he was 18 the first time we met). He was a shy quiet boy, never talked to me much but always noticed me. And I am a shy quiet girl.
• He asked me to be friends on Facebook first and I accepted.
• Years went by and I never talked to him much, but he was always in the background.
• I am 20 now and he is 21. We reconnected through a dating website.
• He emailed me and asked me to text him first and I did.
• After about two weeks constently texting back and forth, he asked me out.
• After this he still texts me everyday.
• We went out 4 times before he put his arm around me/kissed me for the first time. Prior to that I gave him hugs before I went home for the evening (and I think I might have pecked him on the cheek once).
• I have met his parents and his family and he said that they all like me and think im cute, sweet and funny.
• We start to cuddle.
• On November 12, 2010 at 12:30AM, he askes me to be his girlfriend/go steady.
• We have been dating for one full month and we were texting back and forth one evening talking about our feelings for each other when he texted: “I love you!” for the first time. He caught me totally by surprise and I texted “I love you too!” back.
• The next date we had, he said “I love you” to me in person, and I said it back to him
• We begin admitting our flaws and downfalls to each other, becoming very open and intimate with each other. Leveling the playing field.
• We then begain to experiment sexually. Not just cuddling, but with 2nd base type stuff and making out.
• Christmas time comes and he spends 100 dollars on me and buys me five seprate gifts. Including a set of silver earings and a stuffed animal he won for me in a machine. Also invites me to his family’s Christmas party and I Get to meet some of his relitives, friends and Coworkers.
• New Years Eve, he spends with me, ringing in the new year. And I spent the night before with him.
• We are spending pretty much every day we have free/off from work together. And he still texts me everyday. We have long texting conversations and he always says “I love you!” More then ten times during the conversation and always ends a conversation by saying “Good night, sweet dreams and I love you!”
• We share everything sexual about ourselves with each other. Including our turn-ons and his kinks/fetishes
• We have been dating for two months and we hang out every day we are free. He texts me everyday, says “I love you!” and suprises me by showing up at my work unexpectedly.
• We start planning a head and talking about the future. He starts it first by dropping hints like, “The summer, you can come to the trailer with me.”
• We begin experimenting more sexually, with oral sex, manual sex, making out, kissing cuddling and being generally intimate but no sex.
• Every spare moment we are dating or texting each other, and saying “I love you!” He has helped me through some bad days and I have cried both happy tears and loss tears over him. I get extreamlly anxious and sad when he’s not there.
• On January the 8th 2011 we finally had sex for the first time. He was concerned about being too rough with me.
• And we have sex 5 more times in the same week and I give him two blowjobs. He also licks me out and fingers me.
• Alao irt my birthday on the 19th and hes planing something for me. We Still hang out everyday we can and he texts and says I love you everyday. But Now I’m being all sooky and I’m having one of my bad days and I want to know, based on everything I out lined above, does he love me? | | Sounds like love to me. Surprised you even had to ask. Good for you guys. | What would you do if this happened to you? Get ready, it's a long one.? Get ready for the story of my life. duh duh duh!
ok. eighth grade I was in a toxic friendship with someone who disrespected me and wouldnt let me hang out with my other friends.Lets call her *Larissa. I met another girl through Larissa and we soon became really good friends. Her name was *Lily. I also met *Fiona. I would often sneak off with Lily when Larissa wasn't there and we had sleepovers and stuff. I finally broke away from Larissa and didn't speak to her for the rest of the year, stating that I was tired of her walking all over me. I can barely even remember anything about that year. I was really depressed because of Larissa, and I gained weight, thankfully not too much but just enough to lower my self-esteem completely because I had previously been a stick and I was now 120 pounds with my Colombian/Greek ethnicity setting in so I got curves a year later. I now appreciate them, but I thought I was ugly and fat afterwards.
Larissa would often put me down because of her own insecurities, like one time she said, "Guys don't like girls like you, they like girls with curves. You'll never have a boyfriend," and I put up with her crap until I met Lily and Fiona.
Everything was great; I felt like I had found my soul sister in Lily even though I sort of ignored Fiona, I never felt I needed her.
Until, in grade nine, Lily met a girl named *Amber. She was Armenian and stout although she had gorgeous eyes and hair. I began to envy her as Lily spent more and more time with her and the older druggie/drinking group of people she hung out with. Amber introduced Lily to Steve,a seventeen yr old guy she had previously dated and she still had feelings for.
Lily and Steve hit it off, and Amber suggested they date in a voice full of self-pity, which caused a big scandal because Lily didn't want to hurt her feelings and Amber would say, "It's okay, I just want what's best for you" in a sad, superficial way. I witnessed the beginning of their relationship, and I regretted being very giggly on the phone at midnight when she called him now that I would have to meet the guy.Lily and Steve got together in the end, and I was with them in the first week of their relationship at the mall.
I didn't know what to expect, and I didn't really want my fourteen year old friend with a much older guy who might try to take advantage of her.
He had blue eyes and blond hair, and he was big. Not fat. Just...adult. And it sort of scared me when he kept pulling her towards him and touching her under the table. Not to mention he would put her phone down his pants so she would have to get it. How many of you guys use that trick?
It was extremely akward when she started comparing us. "You guys boh have such pretty eyes... Green and blue. I mean, look at each other. You both have nice eyes."
Very akward.
Anyway, she got deeper and deeper in with Steve. He would answer her phone when I called, she would ditch her plans with me as soon as she heard his personalized ringtone and he began to sexually pressure her. He was like Britney's K-Fed as well; in a way: she would buy him expensive Playboy lighters and stuff and he didn't respect her at all. Lily was afraid to kiss him since she wanted to be good, but he kept pressuring her so she gave him blowjobs and handjobs instead. Sick, isn't it?
Once, they were both at his friend's house.
Then, he took her to an upstairs bedroom. They were on the bed.
"I'll just pull out before I come," he told her.
"I don't want to. You can't force me.You just came now! What if I get pregnant?"
"Who cares?"
They went downstairs. He had once told her, "Don't do drugs. If you do drugs I will dump your *** and kick the **** out of you, you understand? Promise me!" and she promised.
One of his friends at the house let it slip that Steve had done drugs, and Lily confronted him.
"I thought you said neither of us would ever do them. We both made a promise," she said.
"It's just a stupid promise. I don't care if you just try it," he told her.
He had lied to her and tried to cover it up so they could initially have sex.
I formed closer bonds with Fiona as a result of Lily's frequent disappearing act. She even had a pregancy scare, and she came to us for the first time in three weeks for more than three minutes to freak out.
By then another girl had joined our band, a sweet redhead named Katie.
Soon, though, Katie showed an annoying, artificial side that we didn't know she had.
Fiona was sighing over not having a boyfriend.
"Your're too insecure to have a boyfriend, Fiona. Your're not ready." Nice, huh?
Rumors began to circulate that Lily wasn't good enough for Steve. I laughed at that. People said she wasn't good-looking enough or popular enough to be his girlfriend. He dumped her, and Lily missed school for three days, not eating, vomiting and crying the whole time.
Katie made the insecure comment about Fiona the day after Lily came back. She seemed to be mentioning Steve fo | | I had insomnia before I read your story, and now I don't. Thank you! |
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