Why do Lesbians use dildos and strap-ons? So, I've always wondered this. Why would they sue dildos and strap-ons? Don't they like females? They like to finger and lick each other's private parts. They are lesbians because they obviously aren't attracted to males but yet some females like to use dildos for penetration. So, lesbians, why do u guys use dildos and strap-ons? |
Preference is about a lot more than the genitals. I get a vibe just sitting next to guy in a bar that I'll never feel with a woman. A lot of lesbians like the feeling of being penetrated, just like straight women [and most gay men] do. Dildos and vibrators are just tools for people to give each other pleasure.
If it feels good and no one is getting hurt, who's to judge? |
Lesbians, is using dildos and vibrators "cheating"? Is it?
Why not the real thing. Please explain to me.
I am a Lesbian... and I'm confused. (I don't like that stuff, penises ;~;) |
I'd say its a form of masturbation, which is healthy for anyone. Most of us have a sex life with our partner and a sex life with ourselves.
And you don't need to like "that stuff". its not for you. But if someone else does like it, what's it to you? If you expect to be the "say all and be all" to another person, sexually, you have another thing coming!
You sound like you have jealousy issues maybe, and that will eat you up! Lighten up and let her be who she is and enjoy what you two do share...
Best of luck! |
Do lesbians use dildos and, if so, isn't that kind of cheating? do they form part of your foreplay and sex, do you have any issue with using a phallus? |
Yes lesbians use them and no it's not cheating they normal share them with their parners
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Why do SOME lesbians use dildos? my question is if a women likes a dildo in side her those she not also like penis? so wouldn't that make them bi-sexual in the physical sense. i mean i understand emotionally they love women but physically they still love what a man has.
okay i asked of my lesbian friends this question but wanted to see what the people on yahoo would say.
here's what my friends had to say
#1 is not about the equipment but how they use it!
-so i said well why dont they just find a go who can work it better?
#2 guys are not gentle enough
-so find one who is, they are out there ladies you just have to look a little harder?
first of all, i dont understand why lesbians get mad when this question is asked, calm down! second the facts remains physically the vagina is made to have intercourse orgasms so where or not you want to declare yourself a lesbian your vagina is not. if you like dildos inside you then you also like penis.
even i hate to admit this but; example i love women im only attracted to women im married and love only my wife. but i know i do like to have anal sex with her and i love to get oral from her and if one day i get blindfolded and a guys give me oral i would probably still have an orgasm and if he bent over and let me do him anally i would have one as well. that doesnt make me gay it just shows that emotionally and mentally im straight but my body would take would ever it can get. AND I BELIEVE THAT SAME THING GOES FOR EVERY WOMAN LESBIAN STRAIGHT OR BI
AM I NOT RIGHT? |
If you're gonna ask this question, why don't you flip it around and say if a dildo is just like a penis, why don't most straight women just use a dildo and forget about having a guy?
Think of it this way, I'm a straight girl but I'm very picky, I don't like every guy I see, I don't even like 10% of guys I see, therefore I don't want their thing anywhere near me. For lesbians I should imagine the percentage would be 0% (obviously). Lesbians just aren't attracted to guys so don't want their penis near them.
I know this was directed mainly at lesbians, but I think I covered your points pretty well ;) |
Why do lesbians use dildos? I don't think I understand. If lesbians like dildos, then why don't they like mens' penises? Is it because men are masculine? but there are butch lesbians that mimic masculinity right? I don't get it. I thought lesbians were turned off by penises. Why do they want a fake male organ if they want women? If they want to get penetrated, then why not a man? it doesn't make any sense to me. I am a male, but I am not interested in men with vaginas. If I want to have intercourse with a vagina, wouldn't I just go for the authentic thing? And also, why do they suck dildos?
Sorry this all sounds very ignorant, but it's all very confusing. |
I think you are just mad because nobodys sucking on your dildo. But I digress, lesbians are attracted to women, not men. It really doesn't matter if you got the real thing in between your legs because lesbians simply don't want you. They love women. Maybe you should grow some **** and get rid of the real thing, then maybe you wouldhave a chance.
Some lesbian women like intercourse. The female body is made to have a orga*m vaginally, why wouldn't they use it? Ha ha! Just because somebody is a lesbian doesn't mean that they don't like intercourse, they just don't like it with men.
Another thing, why would a lesbian suck a dildo? Maybe those girls in the porn like it lubricated. I'm not sure if that is happening in real life dude.
I hope this answer is insightful. |
Why do lesbians use dildos or vibraters if thy dont like men? i think thy do but want to well u tell what is ur take on this plesase make me under stand and gays let me not start on that please some one give me some insight |
| The same reason all women do. |
Why do lesbians use dildos ? if your a lesbian and like only women why would u want a male part involved n your sex ?? |
Sorry, but a dildo is not a male part. Let's do the math:
A dildo does not smell like a penis. It does not taste like a penis. It does not ejaculate a gooey white mess. It does not go limp and need a recovery period, ever. It does not feel much like a penis- no throbbing veins, no warmth. It doesn't go from limp to hard when you touch it and stimulate it. It often isn't even shaped like a penis. It comes it more colors, shapes, sizes, and with more cool and nifty parts than a penis ever could.
A dildo is a sex toy, that is all. And people seem to assume that it's shaped like a penis, but it isn't. You know what it's shaped like? A VAGINAL CAVITY. It's made to fill our vaginas, because for some women, that feels really good. It has nothing to do with sexual orientation.
Hope that's helped ya. |
Why do lesbians use dildos when they obviously don't like men, and so they don't like their 'tools'? This is not a homophobic question but a genuine query |
Being a lesbian...I can tell you that I do not use one but no some like penetration and therefore use them. Being a lesbian isnt just about sex you know...its emotional as well as physical attraction! Not every lesbian uses toys!!! Just like not every striahgt person does oral or every gay man does anal!
Its not the point that we dont like penetration?!! Where did ye pull that from? You think thats why girls are gay?!! Read up on it and educate yourselves if you are so interested! |
Should lesbians be allowed to use dildos? lesbians made they choice when they decided they don't like penis. |
| They are just not attracted to men, it doesn't mean that lesbians aren't allowed pleasure. |
If lesbians dont like d**k then why do they use dildos when having private time together? I am a gay male and even I do not get what two lesbians can do together. |
Is a dildo the same as penis to you? Would you like to have sex with a woman with a strap-on? Because if the answer is "No, duh, I'm gay.", then your argument pretty much falls through.
The desire for penetration is not about sexual orientation- everybody has the same bodies, the same nerve endings. All women have nerve endings in their vaginal walls, as well as a G-spot, and all men have nerve endings in their rectums, as well as the prostate. Liking to have those places stimulated doesn't make you gay or straight- your sexual orientation is determined by who you like doing the stimulating. :)
Again, a dildo is not a penis. A dildo does not start off soft, nor does it go soft. It does not ejaculate a sticky mess. It is not hairy. It does not smell like a penis. It does not taste like a penis. Oftentimes, it doesn't even look like a penis, in color, shape, texture, etc.. Everybody assumes that dildos are phallic, but I'd like to point out that dildos are simply reverse casts of the vaginal canal. You say "D*ck!", I say "Looks like it'd fill my girlfriend's p*ssy perfectly!"
Lesbians can do the exact same things in bed that anybody does:
1) Oral sex (cunnilingus in this case- fellatio in the case of gay men)
2) Analingus (anybody can do this!)
3) Vaginal penetration (with fingers, fists, or toys/strap-ons)
4) Anal penetration (with fingers, fists, or toys/strap-ons)
5) Grinding (tribadism for lesbians, frottage for gay men)
6) Mutual masturbation
7) Manual stimulation (a.k.a. the handj*b)
Really, it isn't rocket science . . . |